Wake:Friday, April 20, 4:00 to 8:00 PM at Collins Funeral Home.Mass:Saturday, April 21, 10:00 AM at St. Matthew R. C. Church, 216 Scribner Avenue, Norwalk, CT.Interment:Following the Mass burial will take place in Assumption Cemetery, Greens Farms Road, Westport, CT.

John K. "Jack" Abely


April 1, 1934 ~ April 16, 2012

John K. “Jack” Abely, Husband of the late Ellen Clark Abely, of Norwalk, passed away on Monday, April 16, 2012, at Norwalk Hospital.

Born on April 1, 1934, in Boston, Massachusetts, he was the son of the late Joseph and Nora Coffey Abely.

John is survived by his son, John K. Abely Jr. and his wife Susan, of Basking Ridge, NJ, his daughter Kristin A. Dolan and her husband Thomas, of New Canaan, CT, his four grandchildren, Brian and Claire Abely and Mary Ellen and Brendan Dolan. He is also survived by his brother Joseph F. Abely, Jr. of Sea Island, GA.

In addition to his wife, John, was predeceased by his daughter Maryellen on May14, 1995.

Mr. Abely graduated from Boston College class of 1956. He spent many successful years as a magazine publishing executive and retired as president of Technical Publishing Company, a division of Dun and Bradstreet. He was a longtime member of Shorehaven Golf Club.

A wake will be held Friday, April 20th, from 4:00 PM to 8:00 PM at the Collins Funeral Home, 92 East Avenue, Norwalk, CT 06851. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held on Saturday, April 21st, at 10:00 AM in St. Matthew Church, 216 Scribner Avenue, Norwalk, CT 06854. Burial will follow in Assumption-Greens Farms Cemetery, Westport, CT 06880.

In addition to flowers friends may make a donation in John’s name to; Sanctuary for Families, PO Box 1406, Wall Street Station, New York, NY 10268.

  1. Hi, it Joe F Abely II (32 year old Joe A),

    Kristin and John I am so sorry to hear about your father.

    I told my dad today that your father was smart, tough man with strong opinions and a good sense of humor – I always knew that, but the last time I spoke to him he told me that in life all that matters is family. I know how much he loved his children, grandchildren and especially Ellen, whom he took such good care of. I am sorry for you loss. I know I haven’t seen him recently, as much as when I was a kid, but I know that I too will miss, love and pray for him for the rest of my life.

    I will see you at the services, I will be going with my father.

    With My Prayers and Love
    -Joey Abely

    April 17, 2012
    Joey Abely III -
  • It was with great sorrow that I read of Jack’s passing in my bulletin from St. Matthew yesterday. Several year ago when I joined St. Matthew and realized that Ellen and Jack were also members of the parish, I asked Ralph Bausch (in the office) if he knew the Abley’s. I was told that they did and that Mom was suffering from Alzheimer’s. I was truly saddened. My name may not be familiar to you but, I/we bought the house you lived in on Reichert Circle! Along with the Sylander’s, we had many fun eveining together with your parents. I’m so sorry that I didn’t know of your Mom’s passing. I believe your Mom had an uncle who was(is) a priest and he continued to address his Christmas cards to the Reichert Cirlce address for many years. Your Mom and I had many chuickles over this. After they left Salem Lane (Road?) we lost touch but I was thrilled to find out that they were members of St. Matthew. Again, I asked some friends which mass they usually attended and heard the news about Ellen. I sincerely pray they are both at peace and deeply regret I didn’t know about their passings so that I could attend the masses for them. May they rest in peace in the loving arms of our Savior. My prayers to all of you….Carol Mata

    April 22, 2012
    Carol M. Mata -
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