portrait picture for Michael J. Parillo

Services: A private service will be held at Collins Funeral Home in Norwalk, CT. Donations: In lieu of flowers, donations in his name may be made to either the American Cancer Society P.O. Box 22718 Oklahoma City, OK 73123-1718 or Westport Humane Society 455 Post Rd. E. Westport, CT 06880.

Michael J. Parillo

April 8, 1956 - February 14, 2013

Michael J. Parillo, age 56, of Trumbull, beloved husband of Phyllis Mete Parillo, passed away from cancer complications on Thursday, February 14, 2013 at St. Vincent’s Medical Center surrounded by close family. Mike was born April 8, 1956 at the Norwalk Hospital to Dominick and Arlyne Garfield Parillo.

Mike worked for many years as a house painter and carpenter. He had a life-long love of music and was a talented guitarist who enjoyed practicing and playing his favorite rock tunes in his home studio. Mike had an equal love for animals. He was an avid reader of non-fiction who loved to work at the computer and solve all kinds of puzzles including Sudoku and crosswords. He always had a jigsaw puzzle in progress on the table. His greatest joy was spending time with his family and grandchildren and niece and nephew who he absolutely adored and who all adored him.

In addition to his devoted wife Phyllis and beloved parents Dom and Arlyne of Westport, Mike will be lovingly remembered  by his sister Julie Parillo of Westport, brother Pete Parillo and his wife Dana Parillo of Trumbull; his cherished niece Jessica Parillo and nephew Danny Parillo; step-daughter Melissa Ross Donovan and her husband Neil Donovan of Stratford; beloved grandchildren Marybeth Donovan and A.J. Donovan; grandmother Anne Garfield of Norwalk; many aunts, uncles, cousins, nieces and nephews. Mike will also be missed by many of his close childhood friends with whom he had a special bond.

A private service will be held at Collins Funeral Home in Norwalk, CT.  In lieu of flowers, donations in his name may be made to either the American Cancer Society P.O. Box 22718 Oklahoma City, OK 73123-1718 or Westport Humane Society 455 Post Rd. E. Westport, CT 06880.

  1. To Arlyne and Dominick Parillo, Julie and Pete – So many childhood memories of Heather Lane came welling up when I read this – I am so sorry for your loss. Believe it or not, you all have been on my mind at the oddest moments for the past few months. I send a big hug to all of you and send my prayers. Julie, if you get a chance can you please contact me. Would love to give you a hug in person. Much love and prayers in this difficult time.

    Joyce Henion

    February 16, 2013
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  • Dear Phyllis,
    My deepest sympathy to you and your family. Mike was a great guy and the love of your life. He will always be in your heart and always around you.
    Thinking of you at this very difficult time.

    February 16, 2013
    Michelle Giacobbe -
  • To Arlyne, Dominick, Julie, Peter and family – We are so sorry to hear about your loss of Michael. It seems like it was only yesterday when your family was visiting grandma and grandpa Parillo on Sundays. May memories comfort you, friends sustain you, and hope guide your way to a brighter tomorrow. You are in our prayers.

    With deepest sympathy,
    Marge and Karen Morin and family.

    February 16, 2013
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  • Dear Arlyne & Dominick,
    We ae heartsick to learn of losing your son. There are no words to describe the pain you are feeling.
    God bless you and Michael’s family. Our most sincere sympathy,
    Vin & Gloria Pocograno

    February 16, 2013
    gloria pocograno -
  • The Lorentis give our condolences and our prayers are with the Parillo family.

    Sincerely, the Lorenti family.

    February 16, 2013
    Joe Lorenti -
  • Phyllis, Pete & Dana, Julie, Arlyne & Dominick and families, you are in our hearts as is Mike at this difficult time. He was the sweetest, kindest, most gentle guy we have ever met and will be greatly missed. But his spirit will live on in his family and friends that he has touched throughout his life. He is an angel looking down on you and know that he is at peace. With the most heartfelt sympathy from your friends……

    February 16, 2013
    Joe, Patty, Lauren & Tommy DiBartolomeo -
  • We will pass his smiling face in the yard walking the dog or cutting the grass,he was a gentle giant with a great heart.Rest in peace with your beloved rock n rollers John and George. Your neighbors….The Paolinos

    February 17, 2013
    Diana,Steven, Mike, Kristen,Daniel and Gio -
  • Sending our love and prayers. Words alone cannot express how sad we are…
    “There are places I remember all my life, though some have changed. Some forever, not for better, some have gone and some remain.” (The Beatles, from the song, “In My Life”)

    February 17, 2013
    Matthew & Laura Brovender -
  • Our deepest sympathies go out to you and your family during this very difficult time. We will keep all of you in our prayers.

    Diane and Jim Ely
    Jimmy, Heather and Dylan Ely
    Melissa, Kenn, Jeremiah, Kenny, Dallas and Cole Hill

    February 17, 2013
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  • Daer Phyliss and Family
    We are so sorry for the loss of such a wonderful man. We are also very thankful for the time we spent together in Newport.
    Our thought and prayers are with you.
    Michelle and Ken

    February 17, 2013
    Michelle Wielk -
  • My heart goes out to you Phyllis, Arlyne, Dom and families. There are so many happy, funny and touching memories of “Big Mike”: pool parties, slip and slide, picnics, prime rib dinners… he was a true friend and gentleman. I have no doubt that Mike and Bill are getting into all kinds of trouble together right now! Mike, I will miss you, but I will never forget you.

    February 17, 2013
    Cathy (Kurzbacher) DellaValle -
  • I always have and always will remember him as a big guy with a big heart. Our deepest sympathies go out to the Parillo family in this trying time.

    February 17, 2013
    Gary & Sue Fusillo -
  • Dear Phyllis,

    We are thinking of you during this most difficult time. We all had many great times together. Lot’s of love and prayers are going your way. I wish there was some way to take the pain away.

    Love you much.

    Brad & Betsie

    February 18, 2013
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  • To Pete, Dana and the entire Parillo Family:
    We are so sorry for your loss. Heartfelt condolences from our family to yours at this difficult time.
    Dana and Ken Beck and Family

    February 19, 2013
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  • Dear Cousin Phil,
    My thoughts are with you at this very difficult time. I am so very sorry for the loss of Mike. Our deepest sympathies to you & the family.

    Love, Roseann & Chip

    February 20, 2013
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  • I will miss the man and great times we had playing music, shopping for instruments, having lunch or intelligent conversation. I truly loved the man and send my sincerest condolences to all his family. I hope one day Rob, Rich, Jimmy and me will get together and remember the fantastic times we had in the band, and play a few of his favorite tunes. Play on Mike… you will in my heart… “G”

    February 20, 2013
    George -
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