portrait picture for Sandra A. Lausten

Wake:Wednesday, June 26th, from 4:00 to 8:00 PM at Collins Funeral Home.Mass:Thursday, June 27th, at 10:00 AM in St. Jerome Church, 23 Half Mile Road, Norwalk.Entombment:St. John Cemetery, 223 Richards Avenue, Norwalk, CT.Contributions:The Bennett Cancer Center, Stamford Hospital, 30 Shelburne Road, Stamford, CT 06904.

Sandra A. Lausten


February 15, 1943 ~ June 21, 2013

 Sandra A. Lausten, 70, wife of the late John P. Lausten, passed away Friday, June 21, 2013 at Stamford Hospital.

Born on February 15, 1943 in Stamford, CT, she was the daughter of the late Anthony A. and Rose L. (Cecchini) Antonelli.

Sandy attended Stamford Catholic High School and Katharine Gibbs Secretarial College.  She valued her education, but followed her calling to become a loving and caring mother and wife.  She lived in Norwalk for the last 43 years.

Sandy was adored by her children, grandchildren, relatives and friends with whom she shared her constant smile and joy.  She enjoyed tennis, especially watching Roger Federer, and enjoyed watching the New York Yankees.   She also had fun watching selected TV shows, especially on the cooking channel, and loved Johnny Mathis and also enjoyed listening to the music from Jersey Boys. Sandy was a wonderful woman who showed a genuine interest in everyone she met. She cared deeply for her friends and loved ones and had an amazing life with her husband Jack for over thirty years. She instilled in each person she met a gratitude for the time they shared with her. Sandy specifically loved spending time with her family and her long term loving friend and companion, Ernie Abate. Maintaining an intense bond with her grandchildren and friends, she never missed an opportunity to attend a school function or sporting event or just enjoy an evening out with close friends. Above all, it was her daughters that made her life complete.

She is survived by her twin daughters, Karen and her husband Bill Juthnas and Missy and her husband Jon Dilley of Fairfield; 5 grandchildren, Samantha and Chloe Juthnas and Michael, Owen and Ryan Dilley, all of Fairfield.  She is also survived by a sister, Carol Bello and her husband George of Stamford, and her brother Charles (Bud) Antonelli and his wife Ellen of Oceanside, California, and 13 nieces and nephews, and her significant other, Ernie Abate.  She was pre-deceased by her sister, Lillian.

Friends may call Wednesday, June 26th, from 4:00 to 8:00 PM at Collins Funeral Home, 92 East Avenue, Norwalk. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Thursday, June 27th, at 10:00 AM in St. Jerome Church, 23 Half Mile Road, Norwalk. Interment will follow in St. John Cemetery, 223 Richards Avenue, Norwalk, CT.

Donations in her name may be made to: The Bennett Cancer Center, Stamford Hospital, 30 Shelburne Road, Stamford, CT 06904.

  1. It’s impossible to express in words how much Sandy meant to our family. Anyone who knew her would agree that she had a life force that just surrounded her and we’re having a hard time imagining a world without her humor, light and wisdom. Until we’re all reunited on the other side, we will miss her terribly.

    Sending every good thought to her family and those closest to her. We love you.
    xoxoxoox
    Michelle & Aaron

    June 24, 2013
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  • Dear Missy, Michael and your entire family,
    So very sorry about the passing of your Mom,”Grandmother”. I am sure you are filled with wonderful memories of her and that they will give you strength through the hard times and a smile on your faces and warm feelings in your hearts. May God bless you all with peace and love.
    Warmest Regards, Gailann Clear (Jake’s Nana)xxx

    June 26, 2013
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  • My sincerest sympathies to Sandy’s family & friends – how will life be without the brightness that she brought everywhere she went? But I truly believe that every time we see a sunny day, or a child’s smile, or hear a beautiful strain of Johnny Mathis, and many other ways, Sandy is right there with us all. People like this only leave us physically but spirit like Sandy’s lives on in all those who have been in her company. I consider it an honor to have known her and pray that her reunion in heaven with the loved ones who preceded her is warm and welcoming—just like her.
    Tears come — how hard to lose a girl like this! But she is watching and loving you all.
    With all my love,
    Christine Dilley

    June 27, 2013
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  • Spot on with this write-up, I truly think this website needs much more consideration. I

    July 4, 2013
    monica -
  • My dear Missy and karen, I was so sorry and surprise to hear of the passing of your mom. I pray with time and prayers the sorrow will lessen each day. I also know how you feel, I two lost my dad one year ago. I think of your mom and the both of you often. I remember your moms sweet smile and all her kind words. I will never forget the baby sitting days I had with the two of you. I hope you can find some comfort knowing there are many prayer for you and your family’s. Your mom gave me your phone numbers a few years back, I can’t find them. So here is my number, please call me, I would love to hear from you both. I live in Idaho now. 208-762-4642. again, my sympathy and prays.
    Lots of Love,
    Michelle Albert

    July 14, 2013
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